Should I have sex before marriage?
The question is controversial, should you have sex before marriage or not? It is not possible to take a side with full authority on this. After all, in our country, sex is seen as associated with purity. The so-called rituals are associated with this. Overall, sex before marriage is strictly a 'no no'. But we thought why not try to look at it from another point of view. Especially considering that nowadays youth have become quite vocal about sex. We want to enumerate four reasons if we believe that having sex before marriage is not such a bad idea.
Reason 1: Bad sex won't break your marriage!
Having sex before marriage will give an idea to both of you whether both of you are sexually compatible with each other or not. Nowadays many relationships are breaking up because of the reason that the sexual energy of both partners does not match. If both of you are in a relationship for a long time and are going to get married then you can have sex. But we are not telling you that it is mandatory to have sex before marriage. It depends on the mutual understanding of both of you, the intimacy and comfort level of the relationship.
Reason 2: You might guess that the partner is not homosexual
Sometimes due to family pressures, mismatched marriages happen. The mismatch of face-face and stature becomes secondary while living together, but if someone is married to a person who is interested in homosexuality, then his whole life is ruined. With sex before marriage, the possibility of such a mismatch is eliminated. Although we still do not recommend having sex before marriage compulsorily, it should be your own decision.
Third reason: It can be known about any kind of sexual problem,
sex is such a topic, which we do not talk about. Do not share general information related to this. In such a situation, we do not even know what are the problems related to sex. When you decide to have sex before marriage, there is an increased chance that both of you will come to know that neither of them has any sexual problems. Once the problem is detected, both of you can find a solution through conversation or take the advice of an expert.
Reason 4: Find out if your partner loves you?
Before sex, every man takes care of the woman, but whether he loves you or not, it is known only after sex. How he treats you after sex gives an idea of his personality, nature, and love. If he kisses you, takes care of you, hugs you with the same warmth then understand that you are with a person who loves you. If he falls asleep turning his face, then it is reasonable to doubt the depth of his love.